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24th Sunday Ordinary Time – Law of reciprocity!

Sir. 27:30-28:7; Ps 103:1-4, 9-12; Rom. 14:7-9; Mt. 18:21-35

The law of reciprocity is based on the golden rule to treat others as you would wish to be treated.  Jesus is calling us to live by the law of reciprocity as Jesus lived and died for us, we are to live and die for him.  God forgives us infinitely of our sins but he also calls us to live by the law of reciprocity forgiving others infinitely their “debt” as he forgives us ours.  Jesus places himself at the center of forgiveness of sins between humanity. 

Generally, we think of the law of reciprocity as an “equal give-and-take”.  When we receive a gift, we feel obliged to offer something in return as a mutual exchange.  When we have gift exchanges during the holidays, we set a gift limit dollar amount to ensure equity in the gift exchange.  When someone commits a crime the justice system sets limits on the punishment phase as a just punishment for the crime.  We act out of a sense of fairness that underlies the law of reciprocity. 

When Peter asks Jesus “how often must I forgive”, he is thinking between human relationships.  Our world however is not just between us humans, it is between us and God.  Jesus binds the debt of forgiveness between humans to himself and his sacrifice for us.  We owe it to Jesus to forgive others as he has forgiven us infinitely.  In this we die to ourselves when we come to realize it is not about us but how we are called to serve him with all our heart, mind and soul.  Jesus gave himself completely on the cross for us and we are to respond to this sacrifice in like manner giving ourselves completely to him.

Often young couples go into marriage with the idea that marriage follows the law of reciprocity as an equal 50-50 give-and-take.  It does not take long to realize there is something wrong with that picture.  The first few years are a battle trying to get to 50/50 and it is not working.  They may even come to marriage counseling to get their spouse to live up to their expectations.  Find a couple that has been married for 50 years and the “secret” is you give without counting, you forgive without recalling, and you sacrifice from your heart.  Its not 50/50 but 100/100%.

One of the blessings of having children is the lesson of sacrificial love we learn from them.  A child comes into a couple’s life and now both are covered with a binding sacrificial love for the child that transforms their hearts not only for the child but for each other.  The mistake some will make however is placing the love of a child above the love of a spouse.  Sacrificial love does not minimize nor is divided between each other and each child that is born.  Sacrificial love multiples the gift of self with greater graces in that the more we give the more we receive in return. 

Love humanizes us to a greater degree.  Love does not imply we never get angry.  Do we have a right to be angry?  Yes, anger has a just purpose in life.  Anger is like a fever in that the problem is not the fever but what underlies the cause of the fever.  Anger is a symptom and we need to examine the cause on its merit.  It moves us to speak and right action.  Jesus became angry in the temple with the money exchangers.  He was moved to action. 

We learn that “The Lord is kind and merciful, slow to anger, and rich in compassion.”  The Lord forgives us infinitely when we come to confession and seek his forgiveness but he calls us to go forth and do the same to our neighbor following the law of reciprocity what we owe to God for his mercy and forgiveness.  In imitation of Christ, we too are called to be “slow to anger” recalling the Lord’s mercy on us.  We are to pray, “Lord I forgive as you have forgiven me, please heal my injured heart.”  He will heal us and lead us to right action. 

Anger can become weaponized to turn the law of reciprocity as a right for revenge, an eye for an eye.  “You hurt me thus I have a right to hurt you back”.  Recall Jesus teaching, “So will my heavenly Father do to you, unless each of you forgive your brother from your heart.”  When anger becomes wrath, it turns into poison that injures three, ourselves, the one we are angry at and our relationship with God.  When anger becomes wrath, it turns one sinner into two wounding the hearts not just of the two but of many affected by the two.  The injury is now carried by others who share the suffering. 

In the law of reciprocity, the forgiveness of one also becomes multiplied by the many allowing others to share in the healing and mercy given as a gift.  It spreads the love of God and his compassion helping us all become more faithful to God and his teaching.  This is the work of the Spirit in the kingdom of God we are all called to serve.  Justice and mercy are both acts of love of God and one remains united to the other.  The Lord suffers his justice for our sins to bring us also his mercy but it cannot be without us fulfilling his commandment “to love another as I have loved you.” 

 Today Jesus comes fulfilling his duty to warn us, we carry a debt to God for our sins.  This debt can be completely forgiven but it requires a transformation of our heart.  In the mercy of God heaven will still be waiting “until we should pay back the whole debt”, a sign of purgatory for our hardness of heart or we can begin to receive the freedom of forgiveness and the glory of his kingdom now and forever.  There is a choice, choose wisely. 

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25th Sunday Ordinary Time – Not fair!

Isaiah 55:6-9; Ps. 145:2-3, 8-9, 17-18; Phil.1:20c-24, 27a; Mt. 20:1-16a

Not fair!  How often have we heard those words from our children or felt in our hearts “life is not fair!”  Our God says, “Let the scoundrel…turn to the Lord for mercy…who is generous in forgiving”.  Not fair claim the self-righteous unless we happen to be the scoundrel then righteousness turns to gratitude.  That is why the Lord says, “so high are my ways above your ways and my thoughts above your thoughts.” 

Mercy is for all who call upon the Lord.  The parable by Jesus in the gospel is more about the Lord’s generosity to confront our sense of entitlement.  Each laborer received “the usual daily wage” even though all did not work the same hours.  The laborers “grumbled” with a heart of injustice, “not fair”.  Yet we know “The Lord is just in all his ways and holy in all his works”.  What we fail to see is that this life of ours is the beginning of all things the Alpha of the Lord’s work in us, but the Omega is the eternal yet to come when all justice is revealed to us.

Not fair that we wait for justice!  Give thanks that the Lord is generous with these days of ours to correct our sin and seek holiness while there is still time before we face the test of justice, the purgatory of life, the call to give an account of our own to the Master.  Let us pray to be worthy works of his love as his servants. 

Perhaps St. Paul gives us some understanding in his letter to the Philippians when he says, “For to me life is Christ and death is gain.”  This complete surrender to God is a pearl in the ocean of fish.  There are many fish in the ocean of humanity but few pearls willing to surrender completely to the Lord.  There are many religious but few saints.  There are many scoundrels but few repentant souls.  That is why the Lord is near to all who call upon him in truth.  In his goodness comes mercy as a Father of love.

St. Paul reminds us we are the “works” of the Lord, the works he is free to accomplish in us and through us as we surrender to him.  St. Teresa of Calcutta prayed to be a “pencil” in the hand of the Lord.  Her life was a storybook of surrender accomplishing the works of the Lord.  We each have our state in life as single, married, widow, parent, religious, layperson, clergy with works waiting to be accomplished for the Lord.  The beauty of serving the Lord’s works is the transformation of our being as a work of holiness in the hands of the Lord.  Call upon the Lord in truth and be transformed as we put our trust in him. 

Consider the heart of our Blessed Mother Mary alongside her son in his passion. He came into the world with all his works of love offering forgiveness, mercy, healing, compassion for the sick and poor, and teaching for the just and his reward by humanity was to crucify him. She held all things in her heart knowing she carried the divine child in her arms with the gift of seeing him again in the resurrection only to see him depart in the clouds. Her total surrender from the beginning claiming “I am the handmaid of the Lord” sustained her faith, hope and love beyond what this world could see. She did not seek fairness only offered up her love. This was her fiat for us to follow.

The heavens rejoice when we offer our self up in union with the sacrifice Jesus makes for us.  Let us make an act of surrender this day in prayer:  Lord of love and generosity, I consecrate myself to your sacred heart in surrender of my mind, will, and spirit to be transformed as a work of your presence in this world to accomplish the “works” your will for me in this day by the graces of your generosity in truth and obedience to your command.  In my weakness come to my awareness your constant presence, your ways above my ways, and your thoughts above my thoughts that I may see your hand at work in me.  Amen. 

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24th Sunday Ordinary Time God is mercy

Sir. 27:30- 28:7; Ps. 103:1-4, 9-12; Rom.14:7-9; Mt. 18:21-35

God is mercy and mercy is forgiveness!  “Remember your last days” before you proclaim “no justice no peace”.  We are called to “forgive your neighbor’s injustice”.  Why do we “hug them tight” our wrath and anger when they are the poison of death while others remain alive?  In part, it is because we fail to see ourselves in the sinner.  In the heart we give thanks we are not like them and justify our “’righteousness” for anger and vengeance. 

False righteousness is like rejecting the leper for his visible disease while walking in ignorance of the invisible cancer growing inside.  “Remember death and decay and cease to sin!”  Jesus likened “the kingdom of heaven” to a king who “settles accounts with his servants” and whether “we live or die we are the Lord’s” with an account in need of justice. 

Justice is the offering of Jesus for our sins to the merciful.  It is conditional on our forgiveness of our brothers and sisters, neighbors and strangers “from the heart” for the injustice.  Jesus speaks to the disciples that “heaven is likened…(to) his master (who) handed him over to the torturers until he should pay back the whole debt”.  As servants of the Lord there is a place for those who fail to forgive for their debt which as a Catholic church we identify as purgatory.  Purgatory is for the chosen who remain with the stain of sin of unforgiveness among others. 

We live in times when the streets proclaim “no justice no peace” seeking reparation for a history of people who have long passed from the earth.  Some believe you can be the victim of other’s history standing in for another’s suffering with expectation of compensation as an entitlement.  They “hold them tight” wrath and anger for a historical identity as victims without personal sacrifice of suffering in the name of social justice.  This is likened to blaming God for the sin of Adam and Eve for falling into a world of sin and suffering.  It is a ludicrous philosophy of victimization for all creation. 

Who do we need to forgive?  It begins in the domestic church, husbands and wives must forgive each other from the heart; children forgive parents for imperfect parenting at best and abandonment or abuse at worse; forgive our friends and neighbors who we have stopped talking with.  The root of forgiveness lies at the seed of love from the home.  It begins with a decision to forgive and a prayer of petition to receive the grace of forgiveness in the heart.  We don’t wait for a feeling to forgive to arrive before forgiving.  We act on the command of God to forgive and trust God with our heart to bring us peace.

It is said by the grace of God many have not seen the inside of a prison.  Among those who have been imprisoned some leave more vengeful than before to commit more crime while others are humbled to never return.  One man appeared on AGT (America’s Got Talent) telling his story of being convicted of a crime against a woman who identified him as the perpetrator.  He had three witnesses who testified he was home at the time of the crime but was convicted and served 37 years in prison before DNA proved his innocence.  Singing kept him hopeful with courage to persevere.  Released his dream to appear on AGT came true as a man of peace.  He survived because his heart was not imprisoned by the walls of wrath and anger.  Many more live outside the walls of prison but their hearts are imprisoned by wrath and anger while they hold tight the key of freedom, the choice of forgiveness.  Choose forgiveness and receive mercy. 

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1st Sunday of Lent

Genesis 2:7-9; 3:1-7; Ps. 51:3-6, 12-13, 17; Rom. 5:12-19; Mat. 4:1-11

Get away, Satan!  Jesus rebukes Satan from the three temptations of humanity in today’s gospel.  In psychology terms it is called the Id, Ego, and Superego.  The Id is the temptation of the flesh to hunger for self-gratification of the passions of the body, hunger being primary.  The Ego is the temptation of the mind for self-gratification to “test and see” is there a God of truth, goodness, beauty and love?  The Superego is the temptation of the spirit for self-gratification of a higher consciousness “to be like gods”.  These are the weapons of Satan.  Get away, Satan the father of lies and come to me Jesus, word of God. 

The first man and woman’s eyes were opened “and they realized they were naked”.  Their eyes were opened not to wisdom as promised by the serpent but to their sin and immediately tried to cover the naked truth of their disobedience.  Can anyone believe they can cover their naked sin before God?  The season of Lent is a process of admitting our nakedness of sin to God and returning to a state of grace for our disobedience. 

Which is our greatest temptation to overcome this Lent?  The sins of the flesh in our passions to indulge our appetites for food, sex, alcohol, drugs; the sins of the mind to indulge in gaming, control, obsessions; and/or the sins of the spirit for pride, power, prestige and profit.  “A clean heart create for me, O God, and a steadfast spirit renew within me.”  The first step is one of humility, we need God to be our change agent, we cannot do this ourselves.  It is in relationship with a power greater than us that change comes.  Alone we are like dust in the air and Satan is the wind that stirs us up and lets us fall.  Without humility we are still trying “to be like gods” with the false image that the power is ours alone. 

The second step is one of confession.  Our confession of faith requires us to go before God and before brethren that is who we have sinned against and ask for forgiveness.  This too is an act of humility in order to seek reconciliation there is a humble testimony that is made after a fearless moral inventory of our sins.  Our “acquittal” we do not give to ourselves.  We are not judge, jury and executioner.  Our acquittal is in the reconciliation with God and others. 

“But the gift is not like the transgression.”  The consequence of sin is suffering and death but the gift of forgiveness is beyond atonement for Jesus has atoned for our sins.  The gift is “the abundance of grace and gift of justification” to reign with Jesus Christ.  Jesus reigns and we are invited to reign through the power of the Holy Spirit not as slaves but as children of the light.  A new child in Christ is our calling and Jesus does not give up on us, let us not be the one who gives up on ourselves because of the temptations of Satan.  Get away, Satan!

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24th Sunday in Ordinary Time

1 Sir. 27:30-28:7; 2 Rom. 14:7-9; Mt. 18:21-35

Think twice!  I love dogs.  All our dogs have a special place in my heart but I am not one to kiss a dog.  Some people do but I pass on that.  Now if you said kissing a dog brought me freedom well I might think twice.  I also love jalapenos but I would not want to eat 100 of them.  If I was told eating 100 would bring me the grand prize then I might think twice.  This Sunday’s message continues the Lord’s call for forgiveness.  If you recall I started last week with the basic principle that God is a God of order.  In the order of salvation history Jesus presents an analogy of God’s love and mercy in forgiveness of our sin in the form of a debt.  We love to hear that.  The order of forgiveness also has a mandate to forgive others and that his mercy also requires justice.  We are not as eager to hear that justice requires something of us.  It requires equal justice of our neighbor.  His mercy depends on our acts of forgiveness for equal justice in the order of salvation to be perfected in salvation history.  In short sin has consequences and forgiveness expectations.

The gospel reminds us of the consequence of sin but with hope.  How many of us have hoped for purgatory?  I suspect not many but think twice.  We want to be forgiven with a straight ticket to heaven and no conditions.   The hope of today’s gospel is that when we fail to be forgiving there is still the hope of settling the debt without eternal damnation.  Purgatory is our hope.  We don’t speak of purgatory or preach of purgatory very much, it makes people uncomfortable.  It is like asking someone to kiss their dog.  Why go there?  For many our sins call for justice and purgatory is an assurance of heaven but not yet.  What is purgatory?

The Catechism titles it “The Final Purification”.  All our baptismal life we have been called to holiness, to be the light of Christ and to be sanctified by our faithfulness to God, Church, and God’s people.  Sometimes the weakness of our human condition makes it difficult.  Sometimes our readiness to respond is uncommitted.  We desire to be holy but not yet.  Heaven however requires holiness.

1st Corinthians 3: 10-15 speaks of a building upon a foundation that is given to us, “namely Jesus Christ” but to be careful how we build upon this with our lives “because the work of each will come to light for the Day will disclose it.  What day, Judgment Day.  “It will be revealed with fire and the fire itself will test the quality of each one’s work.  If the work stands…it will receive a wage.  But if someone’s work is burned up, that one will suffer loss; the person will be saved, but only as through fire.”  Purgatory is the cleansing fire.  Many of our separated brothers like to ask the question, “Have you been saved?”  The theology is that once your saved heaven is the next destination on some “jet” wings.  We don’t hear the question, “Are you a saint, holy and purified?  The assumption is that baptism took care of that for all eternity.  The problem with the argument is that scripture speaks to the “elect” about correcting their sins and the consequence of the cleansing fire for our sins “for the Day will disclose it”.

Dante describes purgatory as a “place where we go to wash our baptismal robles” of those sins.  It is a cleansing by fire.  The white garment received at baptism is a sign of purity but life brings about the stain of sin.  The stain is cleansed in confession.  It is also cleansed in suffering, to carry the cross, to fight the good fight of faith, hope, and love.  Cleansing does not need to wait for purgatory.  The invitation is here and now every day of our lives. In contrast wrath is one of the capital sins found in Dante’s circles of hell.

I was listening to Catholic radio and they were speaking of death.  The host mentioned the days when churches had their own cemetery on the same grounds as the church.  It was a reminder of those who have died in Christ, to pray for them, and to celebrate life in the body and blood of Christ who conquered death and brings us new life.  It was also a reminder of our mortality and to prepared by our receiving each day as a gift from above and making an offering up to God our good works and sacrifices.

We pray for the dead and offer up Masses to assist the “dead” in their purification through the sacrifice offering at the altar in atonement for their sins.  The Catechism (1032) quotes St. John Chrysostom saying, “If Job’s sons were purified by their father’s sacrifice, why would we doubt that our offerings for the dead bring them some consolation?  Let us not hesitate to help those who have died to offer our prayers for them.”

There are many stories in the lives of the saints where they have experience apparitions of a person who has died asking for prayer or an offering of a Mass.  These include priests or religious who claim to suffer in purgatory waiting for freedom from the fire of purification.  The soul is alive waiting the day it too will be reunited to a glorified body but not yet.  The final beatific vision has not arrived.

Jesus raises the bars of justice when he says “You have heard that it was said to your ancestors, “you shall not kill; and whoever kills will be liable to judgment.  But I say to you whoever is angry with his brother will be liable to judgment…liable to fiery Gehenna (Mt. 5:21-22).  Gehenna is the “unquenchable fire…reserved for those who to the end of their lives refuse to believe and be converted, where both soul and body are lost” (CCC:1033).  Thus we have in the first reading the admonition speaking that “Wrath and anger are hateful things, yet the sinner hugs them tight.”  So let us just clarify.  The emotion of anger of itself is not a sin.  It is how we respond to this emotion.  The thoughts that feed it to wrath and vengefulness leads to sin.  It is the holding on to these emotions that becomes an act of the will for sin is an act of the free will.  “Remember your last days, set enmity aside; remember death and decay and cease from sin!” says scripture today.

Mercy requires a merciful heart for healing of sin.  “Pay back what you owe” is not from a vengeful God who was patient with us all our lives waiting for the good works of mercy from us and then strikes us dead.  It is a consequence of the choices we made by our free will.  It is like the old commercial from Midas, “pay me now or pay me later”. Purgatory is later.  Mercy demands justice and justice demands acts of mercy.  What we are to give is small compared to what we are being offered without comparison.  The good news of today is that God is waiting for us to take that first step of mercy and he will take the ninety-nine steps to bring us he love and mercy.  Dare we be so proud as to hold onto the anger and wrath or do we fulfill this day the commandment of “love one another as I have loved you.”  Choose wisely but remember that heaven requires holiness and holiness is a process of purification and purification is something we can start this day in the celebration of the Mass.  Purification begins with a confession of our sinfulness and an act of atonement that is accomplished by our good works of mercy and love for one another.

We had someone come and speak to our community here at St. Francis Xavier of her vision of heaven and hell after a death experience.  Those are transformational events that bring life, death, and eternity into reality.  We are to live each day as if it is our first, our last, our only day to live as a gift from above to love to forgive and to be the best God created us to be.

The lifespan of a dog is perhaps 10 -13 years but in human years is 60-74.  Do we want to extend our time in purgatory in dog years or human years?  The kiss of death is sin but for a kiss of freedom think twice the grand prize is waiting.

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Memorial of Our Lady of Sorrows

Memorial to Our Lady of Sorrows

1 Tm 1:1-2, 12-14; Jn 19:25-27 or Lk 2:33-35

Our Memorial to Our Lady of Sorrow brings to mind the Stations of the Cross we pray here at St. Francis Xavier parish.  They focus on Christ crucified through the eyes of Mary, her acceptance in a sorrowful heart for she “knew it had to be.” 

There is a connection from last Sunday’s readings and this Sunday’s readings on forgiveness and Mary is at the center as a witness of a forgiving sorrowful heart At the moment of her greatest grief to see her son’s passion and death and before Jesus takes his last breath he calls to his mother to accept the disciple a sinner as a son.  He calls the disciple a sinner and with him all of us disciples in faith to be sons and daughters of Mary.  In the first reading we see the power of forgiveness in Paul.  Paul testifies to his great sin and God’s great mercy.  Paul a leader in the persecution of Jesus is transformed into a warrior for Christ and as an Apostle for the Church.  The power of forgiveness is transforming and brings perfection of holiness.  Want to be a saint, start with forgiving everyone and every evil in the name of Christ crucified and in Mary’s sorrow and we will not be far from the kingdom. 

The two optional gospel readings make us aware that the Memorial to Our Lady of Sorrows represents her whole journey of motherhood beginning with Simeon’s prophetic voice, “you yourself a sword will pierce so that the thought of many hearts may be revealed”.  That prophecy can be seen at the crucifixion when Jesus is pierced by the sword to confirm his death and Simeon’s prophecy of Mary’s sorrow.  Her sorrow begins to take on a mission and purpose and continues to the foot of the cross.  It does not stop there, it remains today as Mother of sinners whose sins pierce her heart and scourge her Son.  She too must bear her own cross.  What is revealed in the hearts of many?  It is our sinfulness.  It lays bare for the final purification.  It lays bare so that we may come to the cross and seek forgiveness and reconciliation.  It lays bare so we can achieve eternal glory. 

The sorrows of life can begin to weigh heavy on our minds and souls.  They can challenge our faith.  Without God they can become despair and depression.  We can also unite them to the cross and to Mary’s sorrowful heart.  They can be signs of a deeper call to prayer, to pray always and to be in the reals presence of our Lord in the silence of our hearts.  It is an invitation to surrender ourselves knowing we can’t bear our sorrows alone.  Here we find grace waiting to manifest in our lives.  Grace heals and strengthens us not simply to bear the cross but to receive sanctification, to enter into holiness.  Our sorrow purifies for it is in our weakness that we too can be transformed.  It does not end there.  It is a new beginning as disciples called to go forth, to share the mission of mercy to “love one another as I have loved you.”  

In suffering there is not only purification but the manifestation of virtues.  Faith, hope and love blossom.  Prudence, justice, temperance, and fortitude become our foundation.  Who we are and why we are here becomes our light and our salvation.  As a song says, “We live, we love, we forgive and we never give up cause the days we are given are gifts from above and today we remember to live and to love” (Chorus by Super Chicks) 

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23rd Sunday of Ordinary Time

Today’s principle message is of reconciliation.  To arrive at reconciliation we need to take a step back to the 1st principle of God.  God is a God of order.  In God we have a need for order and unity.  It can be said that if God is a God of order and science is the study of an ordered universe then science is the study of God revealed in his order.  Science is however subordinate to the highest order of truth, a lower order of truth.  What does all this philosophy have to do with reconciliation? 

To be in unity with God we must be reconciled with each other.  We must restore order to our relationships.  In contrast disunity is the poison of disorder.  We must begin with ourselves.  “if today you hear his voice, harden not your hearts.”  Our hearts must be open to reconciliation to be in unity of mind, body, and spirit.  Perhaps our struggle of relationships is a deeper struggle of self.  Our own restlessness and disunity promotes disorder in our relationships. 

The first reading is God’s call to reconciliation with Him, to hear his voice and be in right relationship with the God of love while the second mandate is to be in reconciliation with our neighbor.  With God we have a sacrament of reconciliation to renew the bond of love.  With neighbor we have a calling to dialogue but dialogue requires the desire for unity and free will cannot force unity in a hardened heart.  Thus as the gospel reading makes clear our obligation is limited by the heart of the other.  We can directly seek reconciliation and extend peace, we can seek unity through others and we can turn to the church as a voice of truth.  We then must let go and let God in God’s time work in the hearts of others. 

The order of unity is love where two or three agree on anything through prayer it shall be granted for the greater good.  In the first reading God testifies that we are to proclaim the Word of God when we hear him speak.  God speaks in scripture all the time but there are those moments in time when it speaks directly to us.  It is when the person in the pew feels “that is coming towards me”.  It enters our soul to awaken us to his truth in our particular situation and to reconcile us in our relationships. 

The Word also takes flesh in our flesh when we witness evil, sin, injustice, abuse, and neglect to awaken our duty to respond to the danger of eternal death.  There is a cultural paradigm shift going on in our society to silence speech whether by so called “safe zones” or by outright inflammatory speech and violence.  Billy Graham started his ministry on a street corner preaching the Word of God’s love, mercy and call for reconciliation.  Today, I fear he would be stoned to death, persecuted or injured for offending a group of people in the pubic square. 

God seeks to reconcile the world to himself and we are called to be the voice of dialogue beginning at home, in our communities, and in our engagement on world issues.  The consequence of sin is death.  How many souls remain resentful and unforgiving?  Malachy McCourt states, “Resentment is like taking poison and waiting for the other person to die.”  Many souls are dying with resentful hearts.  They feel justified in their resentment.  They see forgiving as a sign of weakness, giving into the other person or giving up their cause  The cause is never given up if it seeks truth, not my truth or your truth but God’s truth. 

What are we to do?  Rev. Dr. William Mitchell says, “Forgiving is a gift given in the face of a moral wrong, without denying the wrong itself.”  Give the gift don’t dney the harm that can eat us up alive inside.  We give the gift and let God take care of the rest.  This comes from a heart of love greater than the wrong done.  It is a voluntary decision to give up the desire for revenge and release a person from any interpersonal debt incurred by wronging you.  This comes from a mind that is willing to make an act of forgiveness, perhaps by going to confession to invite God to help us release the pain and receive his grace.  Forgiveness is a process both emotional in dealing with the anger, hurt, and disappointment and of the mind in understanding the behavior, the person, and having empathy. 

What are we not to do?  We don’t minimize the reality of what happened.  We don’t forget or repress the memory we learn to let it go.  Sometimes memory has its own sense of humor.  We stop talking to someone for years and we don’t remember why but we remember the anger.  Forgiving is not making excuses for the other or oneself.  Forgiving is not tolerating negative behavior that only keeps us angry.  Forgiving is not something we do after we “get even”, two wrong don’t make it right.  I remember a woman who came in for counseling for depression and anger management.  She was very remorseful for hitting her husband with a 2X4 piece of stud saying, “he made me mad”.  Anger is not a sin it is what we do with our anger that becomes a poison. 

Forgiveness, reconciliation, mercy is seeing Jesus on the cross and accepting his love is open to all sinners and we can be an instrument of his love.  The world is in need of more and more reconciliation.  The path to destruction begins with the silencing of the voice of the other leading to disunity, then disorder and finally destruction.  Even if we disagree we need to be at least willing to agree to disagree in dialogue.  God works where two or three are gathered in his name.

Who is our model for forgiveness and reconciliation?  The one called “full of grace”, Blessed Mother Mary a model of humility.  The Mother who stood at the cross of her Son’s persecution remained in perfect love and did not sin.    Did she feel all the human emotions of anger, grief, pain and suffering?  Yes, she did.  She overcame them with love.  In Jesus, God became more like man to bring us to reconciliation.  In Mary humanity became more like God to be perfect as God is perfect.  God entrusts in us the message of reconciliation to be more like Christ.  This too takes great courage. 

Literature speaks of four great themes of life.  There is a “comedy” where anything that can go wrong does go wrong but in the end all ends well.  There is a “romance” where life has its passion and challenges that seek a higher unity of life.  There is a “tragedy” with a sad ending, a sense of loss and emptiness.  There is also an “irony” where we are left with no understanding and confusion.  So how does this play out with reconciliation?

“Comedy”: Why did it take so long to make up?  I don’t know but you started it.  You also held onto it for so long but now together we end it. 

“Romance”:  I was so angry because I love you so much.  I wish it had never happened but we are much closer now and understanding of each other.

“Tragedy”:  What happened cannot be undone and letting go is not easy.  I still love you but life goes on without you now and I can accept it. 

“Irony”: Though I will never completely understand I trust in God and accept his will for my life. 

In each of these themes of life we can find God’s peace and reconciliation.  Let us harden not our hearts to his voice calling us back to his love and mercy.  Forgiving all injuries is a spiritual work of mercy.  “Love one another” and we will receive God’s peace of heart. 

Let us pray an act of love and reconciliation.  “O my God, I love you above all things with my whole heart and soul, because you are all-good and worthy of all my love.  I love my neighbor as myself for the love of you.  I forgive all who have injured me, and I ask pardon of all whom I have injured.  Amen.” (Handbook for Catholics, Loyola Press 1995, pg. 8)

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Sixteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time 2017

Wis. 55: 12:13, 16-19; Rom. 8: 26-27; Mt. 13: 24-43

Judgement Day, Heaven or Hell!  “Lord you are good and forgiving…judge with clemency.”  I am reminded of a priest covert from a Protestant faith on the EWTN program Journey Home who said Catholics don’t preach much on heaven and hell.  Perhaps this is because the focus is on repentance as pilgrims in our journey home to heaven.

The Master over all things does not need our repentance.  Repentance is for our good not his and we should not expect leniency but offer our works to receive this grace.  Scriptures says, “See how a person is justified by works and not by faith alone…For just as a body without a spirit is dead, so also faith without works is dead.” (Ja. 2: 24, 26).  The Catechism teaches the necessity of faith, “therefore without faith no one has ever attained justification, or will anyone obtain eternal life” (CCC: 161).  Faith is the mustard seed to grow through works into the largest of plants in a mature soul.  Faith alone is not salvation it is the seed in the journey to salvation nourished by the works of love to our God of love.  What are these works?  They are the works of love in mercy and obedience to his commandments.

Today’s gospel makes clear there is no universal salvation, a “free ticket” everyone gets to have.  Some people think everyone is going to heaven and/or there is no hell.  There is good seed, the children of God and weeds, the children of the evil one.  Who are the children of the evil one?  Those committed to the works of the evil one.  Let us not judge the person that is the work of God.  Let us judge the works of evil for they will be known by their works.  Commitment to a culture of death whether in the name of religion or as a State’s rights are a judgment the works of the evil one against the good of humanity.

In our country we have reached a stage in the culture of death called the “right to die”.  In England the judicial system has ruled it has the right to decide the option of death for little Charlie J., the infant born with a rare disease.  The state determines life and death not the parents.  The court has ruled the parents have no rights to seek further medical care for a child and he needs to be taken home to die.  The battle is on.  We are not far behind in our laws.  Take for example the Church opposition of contraception early in the debate while other faith denominations supported it.  No one then thought of late term abortions much less partial birth abortions would be a legal reality.  It was for the first trimester of pregnancy or in cases rape or danger to the mother.  Today body parts are on the market for sale.  Who all participates in the works of the evil one becomes a child of the evil one.

The works of the evil one include those that “cause others to sin”.  Here we must examine our conscience.  As a culture we value personal responsibility for our actions yet we are quick to blame, “he made me do it or she made me mad”.  Is it not that there is a sense of mutual responsibility for the ultimate sin.  We acknowledge the reality of cause and effect.  Anyone who has dealt with or lived through domestic violence learns understands the cycle of abuse from one generation to another.  How many souls will our actions impact for good or evil?  How many generations will the impact have?

We also have the expression, “I don’t know what got into me, the devil made me do it.”  The devil has received its just punishment but our judgment awaits his day.

In Spanish we have the expression, “En acción de gracias”, “in act of thanksgiving” God is merciful.  Scripture says, “For by grace you have been saved through faith, and this is not from you; it is the gift of God, it is not from works, so no one may boast.”  (Eph. 2:8)  Have we found a contradiction in scripture?  This completes our understanding of faith and works.  God alone saves!  There is no target of works we must reach to be saved for one to say “I met the goal and another I didn’t do enough”.  Works are the cause and effect of faith.  Just as faith has a cause and effect of love as scripture says, “…if I have all faith so as to move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing.”  Faith works through love in its works.  We reside in his love through our works of mercy and obedience.  It is not either or but both and, both faith and works belong together in salvation history.

The kingdom is like yeast, a little raises three measures of good bread.  Jesus is our yeast and the woman is the church kneading the flour to give us a whole batch of children of God.  Together we will feed the hungry souls of righteousness.

The faith of a mustard seed means we must take that leap of faith and trust God with how he calls us to good works.  Heaven is calling.  What is our response today?

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